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Posted by Julia
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source DailyOm
The most
important relationship we have in our lives is with our selves. And
even though we are the only ones who are present at every moment of our
lives—from birth onward—this relationship can be the most difficult one
to cultivate. This may be because society places such emphasis on the
importance of being in a romantic partnership, even teaching us to set
aside our own needs for the needs of another. Until we know ourselves,
however, we cannot possibly choose the right relationship to support
our mutual growth toward our highest potential. By allowing ourselves
to be comfortable with being alone, we can become the people with whom
we want to have a relationship.
Perhaps at no other time in history has it been possible for people to
survive, and even thrive, while living alone. We can now support
ourselves financially, socially, and emotionally without needing a
spouse for survival in any of these realms. With this freedom, we can
pursue our own interests and create fulfilling partnerships with
friends, business partners, creative cohorts, and neighbors. Once we’ve
satisfied our needs and created our support system, a mate then becomes
someone with whom we can share the bounty of all we’ve created and the
beauty we’ve discovered within ourselves.
As we move away
from tradition and fall into more natural cycles of being in the world
today, we may find that there are times where being alone nourishes us
and other periods in which a partnership is best for our growth. We may
need to learn to create spaces to be alone within relationships. When
we can shift our expectations of our relationships with ourselves and
others to opportunities for discovery, we open ourselves to forge new
paths and encounter uncharted territory. Being willing to know and love
ourselves, and to find what truly makes us feel deeply and strongly,
gives us the advantage of being able to attract and choose the right
people with whom to share ourselves, whether those relationships fall
into recognizable roles or not. Choosing to enjoy being alone allows us
to fully explore our most important relationship—the one with our true
selves.
source DailyOm
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